Ask a friend to list your star qualities
This can be a great way to get started particularly if you've got dating profile writer's block - it'll help you to be objective about what you've got to offer. And when you're happy with what you've written, get feedback from someone you trust.
Remember that quirky stands out
A popular phrase among the unoriginal is "into all the usual stuff", but it's neither descriptive nor interesting - what exactly is 'the usual stuff' anyway? Another originality killer is the over use of cliches - putting things into your own unique words will make you come across as far more interesting and appealing.
Well what shall I write here?"
Another all too common start, which unfortunately suggests apathy - not an attractive trait in a partner. You may initially be stuck for words, but don't let on!
Think about what or who you're after, and be honest about it
Give your readers a clear message about what you want; that way you're far more likely to end up with someone really compatible.
Show don't just tell
Rather than just stating, for example, "I'm funny" write with humour to prove it - it'll be more convincing, seem less like bragging, and will allow your readers to decide for themselves if what you think is true.
Write small digestible paragraphs
Being faced with a huge block of text is daunting and off putting - try to organise your information into easily manageable, readable portions as these are far more likely to be read.
Alter and edit as often as you feel inspired to do so
Keeping your profile up to date for as long as it's online is a must.
Your choice of username can say a great deal about you
Put thought into something eye catching and memorable that really reflects your personality.
Don't make yourself appear desperate
Phrases like "pick me!" do just that and so are best avoided.
Don't mention your ex!
Endless reminiscing about past relationships whether good or bad is a big mistake, as well as being overly negative for any other reason in your profile. You may have had an unpleasant break-up in the past, but if you seem to be dwelling on it, you'll probably get a wide berth.
Avoid writing in all caps
BECAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE YOU'RE SHOUTING!
Spell check!
Read and re-read your final work of art thoroughly, paying attention to grammar and spelling, altering anything you're not happy with. This kind of attention to detail will show you're serious about dating and give a good impression to your readers.
